Compatibility/Relationship Harmony Quiz

Inspired by
The Conversations You Must Have Before You Get Married (and How To Have Them)
By
Dr. Guy Grenier, C. Psych.

1. When I speak with my partner about important issues, I feel confident they are listening to me and trying to understand my point of view.

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2. When we disagree about an important issue, we work together to solve the problem rather than bringing up past points of contention, withdrawing from one another, or other behaviours that delay solution-finding

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3. The amount of time we have fun together is far greater than the amount of time we find ourselves in conflict.

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4. Even when it feels like we’re not in sync or are having a major disagreement, we are not overly concerned as we know all relationships have ups and downs.

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5. When something goes wrong between us, my FIRST response is to give my partner the benefit of the doubt.

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6. When it comes to housework, we are both pretty happy with the ways things have been divided up.

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7. We agree on how money is to be spent, saved, and generally used.

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8. When it comes to sex, we are on the same page.

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9. We enjoy spending the majority of our leisure/fun time together.

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10. I could easily explain what is special and unique about my relationship with my partner.

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